I don't mean to be offensive but what was the point of your article?

The impression with which it left me was of many assumptions being made with little, if anything, on which to base them.

Even worse was the implied support of a derogatory colloquialism that is commonly expressed as MILF.

In my view, it is such expressions and their use that contribute to maintaining negative stereotypes of women and even worse, providing innuendo or false justification to support them.

This story has nothing to do with either sexuality or love and suggests to me that you have little real understanding or either - though perhaps you are just naive or trapped in a conditioned myth of what it is to be 'masculine' or a 'man'.

Both the title and your story are derogatory and allege something for which there is no evidence presented.

You may be well intentioned and a sound minded person. However, if this contribution reflects your true self, it does that self no favours. Yes, Medium attracts and allows all manner of expression and views but I strongly urge to exercise your intellect & ability or desire to write in a very much more informed and considered manner.