Roger Hawcroft
2 min readMay 25, 2024

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I identify and empathise with the prose/poem. However, I regret the use of "third-world countries". They are not, they are countries of the developing world and no better nor worse than those countries labelled as 'first world."

Neither do I consider that there is any more tendency in the developing world to lack real empathy for those suffering mental dysfunction, depression or other despair at the state of whatever.

People within rich and developed countries are certainly at least as likely to fail to recognise the emotions of the depressed, if not even more likely to do so, than than those of the developed world.

The reality is that 'depression' and such conditions are both real and personally felt, regardless that such feelings or their description may be universal.

In my view, we need to attempt to stand in the shoes of all others and empathise rather than criticise. It is also important that we don't belittle the depth of feeling of someone, regardless of whether or not we see it as unnecessary, trivial or easily overcome.

We are all unique. 'Professional' psychiatrists and psychologists are not infallible and depend on what are perceived commonalities that indicate particular conditions. Those professionals don't necessarily get it right and certainly not in every case, no matter how experienced and genuine they may be. To expect that the lay-person can do so, particularly given the history within society of mental illness or dysfunction and its lack of understanding, is to expect far too much.

So, I really do relish this prose/poem but I regret what I see as a false representation of those in the developing world. It suggests a causation for a lack of empathy which is flawed logic. Those living in poverty, conflict and worse, are preoccupied with survival, as are many disadvantaged in the privileged rich world. When such is the case, it may be extremely difficult to be empathetic with other than one's immediate fellow sufferers. However, at least in my experience, i have rarely found such people to consider that " rich or financially capable people shouldn't be depressed because they can have everything they want." Indeed, what I have experienced is that the disadvantaged are far more likely to be considerate and 'forgiving', if you will, than are the more advantaged and wealthy.

Take care. Stay safe. ☮️

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Roger Hawcroft
Roger Hawcroft

Written by Roger Hawcroft

Expat Tyke in Australia. Dismayed & depressed at World conflict/poverty/disadvantage/hatred. Buoyed by music, art, literature, nature, animals & birds.

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