I'm not sure what point you are attempting to make here.

Women certainly ought to have choice about how to live their lives. As should all of us, providing that we are not harming others.

However, where 'choice' is actually delusional, i.e. brought about by some form of insidious conditioning, then it behoves all of us to seek to change that conditioning for, in reality, it is an imposition and imprisons the person in a role which may or may not be what they would choose if they were truly aware.

The reality is that in a patriarchal society, most 'traditional' roles for women have been restrictive and based on falsities about their abilities and capabilities.

Take care. Stay safe. ☮️