That's sad.
Clearly you have much to learn.
You make many unevidenced and opinionated assertions. You may well believe them. However, doing so does not make them valid or true.
Yes, there is much hypocrisy in society and some of it underlies apparent civility. That is not the same, however, as all civility being hypocritical or being a disguise for some nefarious ulterior motive.
Your tone remains unfortunately crass and your argument in defense of it is simplistic at best.
If you wish to be seen as credible, you would do well to rethink and rephrase.